Empowered Soberful Women
An Exclusive 4-month
Sober Coaching Program
For women who are empowered to thrive in
sobriety even when life is hard
Getting sober has not been easy, but you know it’s worth it. At least, you hope so. Yet, you’re still struggling to get to that
place in sobriety that everyone says is so wonderful.
(Hint: You’re not alone. Emotional sobriety doesn’t just materialize out of nowhere. It takes a bit of work. And some keen direction from experts who have been there and know the way out.)
The Empowered Soberful Women coaching program has been carefully designed to help you dismantle the thinking and behavior that has been holding you back from living up to the aspirations you have for yourself.
"I joined the group early on in my sobriety. The program was very focused and it felt a very safe container to be open, vulnerable, and to reach out when needed. I would recommend it to anyone starting the journey to sobriety as it will give you the tools to deal with situations and triggers. It will also help you to find the root cause of your alcohol abuse and show how to move forward."
- coaching client
It’s all about achieving emotional sobriety, or learning to effectively deal with your emotions and feelings.
You are doing the best you can with what you’ve got. You just need some gentle nudges to help move you in the right direction—and reminders of what is possible and how to get there.
An Empowered Soberful Woman:
- Has boundaries.
- Knows her worth.
- Feels excited about life.
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Is free from the pressure to drink.
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Knows how to have FUN without drinking.
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Has appropriate emotional responses to events.
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Navigates relationships with ease and confidence.
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Feels like what she does and who she is, is good enough.
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No longer locks away her emotions until they explode,
or overreacts to every little thing that goes wrong.
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Manages emotions with a “toolbox” of practices
(instead of with alcohol).
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Is becoming the parent/partner/friend she longs to be.
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Feels motivated and excited to find her purpose.
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Feels understood and supported—not judged.
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Is free of the good and bad opinion of others.
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Learns and grows from her mistakes.
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Loves who she is becoming.
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AND is naturally a badass.
What if you could let go of the shame you’ve built up from past behaviors?
Imagine going through all this with a small group of women just like you.
Imagine sobriety as your superpower.
You don’t have to walk around feeling like you’re not getting it right or like you’re missing out on something. We’ll work on all of this and so much more inside Empowered Soberful Women. Life is short. It’s time to make every day count.
“I had tried to get sober on my own many times and failed. I knew I needed support and I needed a programme but I was too afraid to go to AA in my town in case someone knew me. I had been listening to the Soberful podcast for a few years and I trusted Chip and Veronica. Soberful Women helped me to become ok with myself—more than ok—liking myself, feeling proud of myself, feeling proud of the work I was doing for myself and the effort I was making for myself. Anything is possible now. I can make my own life and feel safe and strong and capable.”
—Gillian
“I joined Soberful Women because I could not maintain long term sobriety. The program worked more than anything I have ever participated in to stay sober. I made huge progress in changing my mindset thanks to all the invaluable help from [Tamara], staff, and other women in the program. I have hope for a better future because I am learning to create healthy boundaries. I can now identify being stuck as an opportunity for growth. I am learning to like myself. I can now accept mistakes as just mistakes, not just insurmountable character defects. I told Tamara that I can now say ‘I’m not perfect but parts of me are excellent.’ Big breakthrough.”
—Toddy
“Having someone I could vent to/bounce thoughts off in early recovery was so essential. I would have felt guilty or uncomfortable doing that with anyone else. I was able to talk about everything with you and not feel judged—there was no shame. You helped me in real time through some difficulties that happened during our work together, and also helped me work through some of my really big traumas and patterns (which still come up for me, but I continue to use the tools you gave me to work on them).”
—coaching client
“Immensely grateful! I felt so solid and secure in my sobriety. I knew I had tools and resources and a network to help me with things that came up. I had wondered if I would struggle without the same level of support when we stopped working together, but it was more like training wheels coming off, and you had taught me how to ride the bike on my own.”
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“I feel much more balanced in myself, even though I’m still in a transitional period of my life I’m ok with that and I’m leaning into all the new experiences and learning to manage my feelings appropriately. I feel more connected to god, myself, my friends, and family than I have in many many years.”
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The Empowered Soberful Women Program Will Allow You To:
You Will Receive...
An Early-Bird Bonus Session (a $450 value)
If you join Empowered Soberful women by Wednesday June 22nd, you get access to a bonus workshop ‘Rediscovering your badass self’ with Veronica on Wednesday, June 22 at 3pm EST (8pm UK). In this bonus session you will learn what really matters to you and how to change your mindset so you can move towards your values.
6 Info-Packed Modules (a $1997 value)
You will get access to a video training and handout for each module so that you can begin implementing the practices ahead of our group coaching calls each week. We suggest watching the videos twice and begin practicing the skills that we are teaching.
A Ticket to The Exclusive Soberful Women One-Day Online Retreat (a $997 value)
On September 7th, 2022 Tamara and Veronica will be hosting a full day (online retreat) to do a deep-dive into the resentment work. This is one of the highlights of the program and will bring all of the work you have been doing together.
Weekly 90-minute Group Coaching Calls (a $5000 value)
You will be coached by sobriety experts through every part of the program, and you’ll leave each call crystal clear on your next steps. You’ll feel empowered and motivated because you know you are in the hands of an instructor with experience and knowledge.
We will meet weekly:
Wednesday’s at 3pm EST 8pm UK, starting June 29th, 2022
6 Months Membership to Soberful Life (a $97 value)
When you join Empowered Soberful Women, you’ll get five months of free membership to Soberful Life, our online sobriety program where you’ll connect with others like you who are overcoming the challenges of sobriety together. You will get daily support, inspiration, and feel like you have a place where you belong, all with the option to remain anonymous.
Access to Our Exclusive Online Community (a $497 value)
Private access to an online room inside Soberful Life where you can connect with Empowered Soberful Women participants and share your challenges, wins, and growth. Get feedback when you need it.
What you'll learn...
Module One: Boundaries
Module Two: Creating Balance and Meeting Your Needs
Understand what it means to create balance in your life in a way that meets your needs as you become the person you long to be.
Module Three: Dealing with Fear and Resistance
Fear, worry, stress, anxiety—we all face it in different ways, and it can make our lives very small. Learn how to free yourself from the grip fear has over you.
Module Four: Relationships
To have thriving relationships with others requires that you have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is where we start. Then, we learn ways to navigate difficult relationships, as well as ways to work on deepening beneficial relationships.
Module Five: Shifting Resentments
We all have resentments. Some are big traumas and others are small annoyances that build up day to day. Instead of suppressing them, we learn to lean into them and work through it.
Module six: Empowering Habits
At the end, we consolidate everything you’ve learned into an empowering experience that carries you through the coming weeks, months, and years of living a Soberful life.
It’s time to Take Your Life Back.
Early Bird Bonus
Sign up for Empowered Soberful Women by June 22nd and get access to a bonus group workshop on June 22 at 3pm EST (8pm UK) with Veronica where we’ll make a commitment to ourselves and the person we want to be, get clear on our values, and begin the journey to returning to ourselves.
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The first FIVE women who sign up get a bonus 60-minute EFT coaching session with Veronica.
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Book a Next-Step Assessment Call!
You may not know if Empowered Soberful Women is the right program for you.
In a Next-Step Assessment Call, you’ll talk to Veronica or Tamara about your goals and life circumstances, and they will be able to give you some direction about what’s the next best possible step for you.
Everyone is on a different path. Soberful keenly recognizes that. Sometimes you just need to know what’s possible for your unique situation.
They will discuss with you the options you have to stop drinking. If Empowered Soberful Women—or any other Soberful program—is the best option for you, we'll subtract $48 from the cost of the program.
“Working with Veronica changed my life. She helped me find the tools to begin to heal and create a picture of a full beautiful life in sobriety. On one of our first calls she told me that my life could be in full color. I didn't believe her but today I can honestly say that sobriety is beyond anything I could have ever imagined when I reached out to her on that dark January day. Veronica took my hand, stood by my side, and rooted me on when I didn't know what to do next and thought I had to go at it alone.
Her words, inspiration, and tools are engraved in my heart and I go back to them over and over again to find strength, understanding, and a way forward. I am so grateful to have had her guidance and support as I began on one of the most difficult journey’s of my life. I am forever grateful for Veronica and her work.”
—A “sober and free woman”
Meet Your Coaches
Veronica Valli
Veronica Valli is changing the narrative on sobriety. With 22 years in recovery and 20 years’ experience as a recovery coach and psychotherapist, she understands that there is no ONE path to recovery.
Author of books Why You Drink and How to Stop, Get Sober Get Free, and upcoming Soberful - Uncover a sustainable fulfilling life free of alcohol, and co-host of the Soberful Podcast, Veronica has helped thousands of women not only recover from alcohol, but also transform their lives.
Veronica teaches that alcohol is not the problem—it’s only a symptom of a deeper underlying problem. She helps women dig deep, embrace change, and become who they are meant to be. “I help you reveal yourself to yourself,” she says.
Veronica works with women all over the world through her successful and innovative online recovery programs. Now based in the US after relocating from the UK, she is married and lives in Lake Tahoe, NV with her husband and two sons.
Tamara Kirby
Tamara Kirby has helped hundreds of people recover from active addiction as a Licensed Addictions Counselor and International Certified Drug and Alcohol Counselor. She uses her own recovery as well as her clinical skills and education to lead the path in stigma reduction, raising community awareness, and educating businesses. She helps businesses change company policy and build a better business by meeting the needs of their employees. She has opened and maintained the development of two addiction treatment programs in the past five years. Currently she is a treatment consultant with the Indiana Center for Recovery and Haven Behavioral Health as well as the community manager of Soberful Life.
FAQ's
What is Group Coaching?
Group coaching is a very effective way to achieve transformational growth. We often feel that we are alone and cannot see a clear way to move forward. In reality, the challenges we struggle with are actually very common. This group will be hand-picked to ensure it is a safe supportive space. Guided and supported by Veronica & Tamara, who will ensure you gain the tools you need to grow and change. Group coaching is much more affordable than individual coaching.
Will the calls be recorded?
No. For privacy reasons we don’t record the coaching calls but you do get a teaching video and hand out with each module.
When are the calls?
The calls are every Wednesday at 3pm EST/ 8pm UK, starting June 29th and running through October 26th, 2022.
How do I know this will work for me?
If you are here reading this now, it’s because you have followed Veronica’s work with Soberful. You know our experience and qualifications (see below), and you know we are both in long-term sobriety. You will also know that we are qualified and experienced professionals. You may have also been searching for a while and may have tried different things to enhance your sobriety that didn’t help as much as you wanted them to. If you have the willingness, then we have tools and experience to move you forward. We believe you get sober by changing your habits and putting weight on the sober end. This program will show you how.
What if I change my mind and want a refund?
Before signing up for this program we encourage you to do due diligence and research the facilitators so you can feel confident in their skills and abilities. Please do not buy any program unless the facilitators are qualified and experienced. We limit the numbers of this program so when someone commits we hold them to that commitment and have a non-refundable policy.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Group Coaching?
Group coaching is a very effective way to achieve transformational growth. We often feel that we are alone and cannot see a clear way to move forward. In reality, the challenges we struggle with are actually very common. This group will be hand-picked to ensure it is a safe supportive space. Guided and supported by Veronica, Tamara, Mimi, Yulonda, and Tiffany, who will ensure you gain the tools you need to grow and change. Group coaching is much more affordable than individual coaching.
Will the calls be recorded?
No. For privacy reasons we don’t record the coaching calls but you do get a teaching video and hand out with each module.
How do I know this will work for me?
If you are here reading this now, it’s because you have followed Veronica’s work with Soberful. You know our experience and qualifications (see above). You will also know that we are qualified and experienced professionals. You may have also been searching for a while and may have tried different things to enhance your sobriety that didn’t help as much as you wanted them to. If you have the willingness, then we have tools and experience to move you forward.
Do I have to have stopped drinking before starting this program?
Firstly, it’s very important that you seek medical advice before starting a sobriety program. Second, we believe you get sober by ‘putting weight on the sober end.’ Enrolling in a program like this which is structured and has accountability is how you put weight on the sober end. So the answer is not necessarily but we would want you to commit to stopping in the first month.